Pleasure Slave Manual
Romance

"Should the sun refuse to shine, should romance run out of rhyme, you alone will hold my heart now until the very end of time."
- Verses of Love

It is a misconception to think that you must pull off something big and extravagant so that your efforts will matter. The truth is, what impresses Me more often than not are the little things.

Little things are rather simple things that you do for Me. Despite the fact that they are "little" they can mean so much.  The little things touch My heart and makes you look Thoughtful.

Considering the importance of every day little things, think about some new romantic and playful ideas and start applying them.

Remember, when you take the time to be thoughtful and attentive daily, it makes Me "Want" you more. The More I want you the more time you Get to spend with Me. Its as simple as that.

Some men just are not in tune with their romantic side. Fortunately, most men can be taught, given the right attitude.

* A thoughtful heart is a romantic heart *

Nurturing Romantic Rituals is important in any relationship and ours is no different. So make sure you are aware of My need for Romance and feel free to sweep Me off My feet.

I will respond quickest to a mans action or lack of action. So, live and love to your absolute fullest and watch how My sparks start to fly.

The golden rule, pamper Me, spoil Me, pamper Me, spoil Me:
Doing this will spice up all of our activities. I am a full blooded Woman, you can never compliment Me to much, spoil Me to much or pay to much attention to Me.

Showing random acts of affection liberally will put a smile on My face. Showing random acts of affection is all part of being thoughtful.

It can be very romantic for you to think of creative ways to Please Me. Buying Me something is always a given, but there are also many other ways to say you care and value Me.

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* Setting up a well written profile dedicated to Me

* Create an online journal with poems you have written for Me or about Me

* Crafting, Creating or Making something by hand always goes over big with Me. The amount of time that goes into something you have created pleases Me a great deal. I love to Know that you have been thinking of Me. It is your "thoughts" I want to own as well. your creative juices excite Me and make Me want to pull you in deeper.

* Create a video of you singing, dancing, or doing something talented or skillful

* A healthy mind and body will translate into a healthy attraction between us, so always be well groomed.

* Take the time to pay sincere gifts of love. Offer genuine compliments often. Offer generous praise for Me. The road to prosperity in our connection will be paved with a commitment to generosity towards making sure I feel how much you desire Me.

* We feel closest to those who cause us to feel good about ourselves. Lavish Me with expressions of love and bring them straight from the heart.

* Appreciation is among the top ten needs for most people, express it daily.

* Exercising better choices is a great gift. It requires that you do not repeat the bad choices you have made in your life up to this point in time.

* Take on "the art of communicating." Entire books have been written on this subject.  your communication is the most important aspect of our relationship. Without it, you are only half a person. We communicate in all kinds of ways, including verbal and non-verbal, so walk in awareness of how you are presenting yourself.

* Be open and listen. Listening is the key to communicating. When you are communicating well you feel connected. When you feel disconnected you become distant. So make sure you are communicating effectively.

* Watch what you say. Choose the words you speak with great care. Words hastily offered are not easily retrieved. They become your reality. The future of our relationship lives on the tip of your tongue. Speak with tenderness. Use terms of endearment and be polite. Use words of affection, understanding and acceptance. To nurture is to nourish, educate, grow, develop and cultivate.

* It pleases Me for you to be a straight shooter. Trust is the great equalizer in a good relationship, without it there is nothing.  A good foundation in a healthy relationship is built on trust and trust must be earned.

* Holding back on the truth about how you feel, only telling part of the story slowly erodes the trust in our relationship. Total honesty brings about awesome trust.  Do all that you can to achieve it!

* It is important to understand that relationships seldom feel easy. However, our relationship is less of a struggle when you agree to do whatever it takes to make it work. This does not mean "giving it your best shot and if it doesn't work, you move on." This means doing whatever it takes!

Put even a few of these into practice and a more intoxicating relationship with Me will be your reward.

* A thoughtful heart is a romantic heart *

Because I value all Woman, I have included the following to better educate you on How to Romance a Woman in your day to day life. Keep in mind, the following ideas are only for the Women who are accepting of it. Never push yourself on a Woman. If a Woman says "no" She means No. If a Woman says "stop" She means Stop. Period. With that said, enjoy the ideas below. xoxo

* While She is at work, use your spare key to open Her car door and place roses and a card in Her driver's seat. This will show Her your true feelings.

* Don't buy Her a commercial type card to declare your love. Make Her one and send it to Her in the mail, even if you live together. The card will surprise Her!

* Give Her a small decorated box.  On the inside flap write "These are 50 of the many reasons why i love you."  Create 50 brightly-colored folded strips of paper inside with various phrases...all declaring your love.  Fill each strip of paper with something very personal and include some special surprises like a gift certificate to Her favorite spa.

* Spend the night outdoors together on a really warm, clear night.  Name a star after Her and register that name on-line.

* Cook Her what will become a favorite meal.  Use candles, a bottle of red or white wine, then follow this up with a back and neck massage.  Do this "just because" and ask for nothing in return. The art is to please Her.

* Send Her on a scavenger hunt. Have Her goodies (prepaid and waiting) at the bakery, deli, wine store etc., and when She gets home meet Her at the door in something sexy. 

* Have a "conversation a day" (on the phone or at home) where you whisper to Her and let Her know you love Her and miss Her.  your whisper will capture Her attention.

* Run Her a bath, adding oil and bubbles.  Fill the bathroom and bedroom with tea candles everywhere.  Bathe Her very slowly and massage the water and oil into Her skin very gently.  Tease Her with kisses.  Finish by presenting a warmed, fluffy bath towel and give a long kiss while drying Her off. Complete your love ritual by rubbing Her down with a sensual lotion.

* Leave a trail of Hershey's Kisses with the pieces of paper that say "Kisses" taken out and replaced with your own romantic quotes.  Make this trail lead to the shower to find roses and a note that says, "Now that i have kissed the ground you walk on and showered you with roses................you fill in the blanks.

* Draw little hearts all over some post it notes and place them in Her dresser drawers, on the bathroom mirror, etc. Just use your imagination.

* Line a delicate trail of rose petals to lead to your bed and place one sweet love letter on top of a mound of the scented rose petals.

* Leave a single pink rose on Her pillow for the next morning.

* Sing a love song in the shower and be sure to use Her name.

* Wear Her cologne or perfume for the day. This will forever remind you of Her.

* Wrap a small mirror in a delicately laced piece of fine cloth and beautiful ribbon, then present this to Her. Tell Her, "i want you to know that this is what i treasure most in my life."

* Present Her with a small locket with a picture of you both, each on one side. Use a long silken cord or ribbon instead of a chain.

* A thoughtful heart is a romantic heart *

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